Sex is one of the prime basic needs of human being. None can deny it. Both male and female have an intense desire to have sex for their own satisfaction. But this satisfaction doesn’t only mean the physical satisfaction. Mental satisfaction has a prior importance. If sex is not enjoyable, then it doesn’t differ from masturbation. It can’t ensure us complete satisfaction. So, for our complete satisfaction, we need to enjoy it mentally. We need to boost our mindset. We need to have sex in such a way that both the male and female enjoy it equally. For a successful conjugal relationship, enjoyable sex is a must.
In some cases, we see that people get nervous while they have sex. Some men feel that they need to act differently while having sex, which shouldn’t be as sex is quite a normal thing. Instead, if someone progress from one step to the next smoothly, there is every chance to make that sexual work build a nice and pleasant impression on the mindset of one’s partner. Nothing should be done hurriedly. Sloth in sex will make it more enjoyable and satisfactory.
Another way to boost the mindset is to avoid negative thinking. Generally, we see that we unnecessarily think about the future leaving the present. While walking to our workplace, we think of what’s going on at the office and during sex about the duration of ejaculation – whether it is too fast or not, whether the duration could have satisfied the partner or not, etc. Such sort of negative thinking makes us stressed and prevents us from enjoying the game. We should relax and stay in present during sex to reach the utmost level of satisfaction. We have to concentrate on the present condition and should have sex for long time with detailed physical activities to make it more enjoyable.
The art of touch has a great importance during sex. Women love to be touched. If a man can touch her smoothly and softly, it will surely ensure his success in seducing her. Touching has a taming power and creates a positive effect on women’s mind that helps stimulate their sexual appetite. This is a prerequisite for an enjoyable sex. So, men must spend some time in touching their women to drive them crazy for having sex. If someone is not hungry, food will not turn up to be tasteful to him. Likewise, if someone’s sex appetite is not aroused, sex will not be enjoyable to him/her.
So, sex should be started with touch. Hugs make it more romantic and girls find themselves comfortable and safe in the arms of the person they love. A tight and warm hug will help create good impression on a lady’s mind. Then gradually touching will make her more and more crazy and hungry for sex. Afterwards comes the importance of the tongue. It’s the most effective and matchless stimulating device for a girl. Then comes the kisses and finally sex itself. This sort of gradual proceeding at a slow speed helps a lot to boost the mindset of a girl for having sex. The more the process is slow, the more it is enjoyable.
Sex is an art and an extremely necessary weapon for a relationship. As our body is controlled by our mind, we should work on our partner’s mind more than on his/her body. An enjoyable sex ensures long lasting positive impression on the mindset and thus ensures an everlasting happiness and enjoyable relationship.